There’s this idea out there that nannies supposed to be superhuman. Like we can do it all without ever slowing down. Caring for children, keeping the house in order, adjusting to last minute changes, even carrying the emotional load for parents too. Truth is, we love what we do, and we’re proud of the work. But let’s be clear we’re human, not superheroes.

We’re trained, experienced, and dedicated. We can calm a crying baby, guide a toddler through a meltdown, whip up a healthy meal, and still make it to storytime on schedule. But that don’t mean we don’t get tired. It don’t mean we can’t feel overwhelmed. Just like anybody else, we need rest, respect, and support to do our best.

The problem comes when families start expecting too much, like we supposed to handle every little thing. That’s when the lines get blurry. Suddenly, the nanny role turns into housekeeper, pet sitter, or personal assistant without the conversation or the extra pay. Over time, that wears a nanny down, no matter how much she loves the kids.

Here’s the real deal. Nannies are people. We need boundaries. We need fair pay and benefits. We need time to breathe so we can show up fully for the children we care for. When families treat us as partners instead of superheroes, everybody wins. Kids thrive, parents feel confident, and nannies can keep bringing that magic we’re known for.

So let’s shift the story. Nannies don’t need to be superhuman to be valuable. Our humanity is what makes the work powerful, meaningful, and real.